“When a pastor commits a sexual sin does he need to confess it to the entire church?”

This question was asked during my Psalms class last week as we were discussing Psalm 51.  According to the heading, the psalm was written after David committed adultery with Bathsheba. 

Psalm 51

To the choirmaster, A Psalm of David, when Nathan the prophet went to him, after he had gone into Bathsheba.

While the whole class suddenly engaged actively in the discussion, the student’s question felt particularly relevant personally since at my church they announced on the previous Sunday that a member of the staff was being released due to an incident of sexual sin. 

Students commented that specific sins are rarely confessed publically in church contexts.  The rare exception to this pattern is sexual sin.  I wondered if we made it a more common practice to confess “smaller” sins to each other as Scripture commands (James 5:16), if there would be less “bigger” sins to confess. 

I also noted to the class that while we don’t know all the details, we do know David confessed his sin to Nathan (2 Sam. 12:13) and he also wrote down his confession in the form of Psalm 51. 

We are unsure of who may have read the psalm while he was alive, but David’s confession has been read rather widely over the course of the past 3000 years.  And Scripture has no qualms narrating in detail the story of David’s adultery, deception and murder (2 Sam. 11).  The Bible itself models openness and honesty about sin since none of the “heroes” of Scripture (except Jesus) comes out looking completely pure: Abraham lied about his wife, twice (Gen. 12:10-20; 20:1-18); Moses committed murder (Exo. 2:12); Elijah was suicidal (1 Kgs. 19:4); Peter denied Jesus, thrice (Mark 14:66-72). 

So, when it comes to sin, pastors and all church leaders need to be open, honest and specific about sins.  I think pastors should confess not just sexual sins, but other sins.  When pastors tell real life stories, their congregations need to hear about failures, struggles and sins

In Psalm 51, David provides a model of confession:

1Have mercy on me, O God, according to your steadfast love;

according to your abundant mercy blot out my transgressions.

2Wash me thoroughly from my iniquity,

and cleanse me from my sin!

3For I know my transgressions,

and my sin is ever before me.

4Against you, you only, have I sinned and done what is evil in your sight,

so that you may be justified in your words and blameless in your judgment…

While the psalm itself is vague about the details, speaking generically of “transgressions”, “iniquity” and “sin”, the heading makes it clear what the context of the sin was.  The vagueness of the language of the psalm invites the reader of the psalm to “fill in the blanks” with their own sins.  If David spoke of adultery and murder, those of us who haven’t committed those crimes, at least not yet (although see Matt. 5:22, 28), might find it difficult to identify with the words of the psalm. 

The important thing to remember when it comes to confession is that as big as our sins are, God’s mercy and steadfast love are bigger.  David begins the psalm not with his sin, but God’s mercy. 

Our reluctance to confess sins as openly and honestly as David communicates that we don’t believe God’s mercy can really wash and cleanse us.  As political and spiritual leader of the nation, David could have easily rationalized keeping his sin secret.  But his cover-up of the initial sin of adultery led to more sin—deception and murder.

As David confesses, his divinely cleansed heart (Psa. 51:10), allowed him to go on to teach other transgressors God’s ways so that they could return to God (Psa. 51:13).  May we follow David’s example, not in sinning, but in confessing and teaching other sinners. 

Where do you see confessing in the church? 

David Lamb is Associate Professor of Old Testament at Biblical. He’s the husband of Shannon, father of Nathan and Noah, and the author of God Behaving Badly: Is the God of the Old Testament Angry, Sexist and Racist?He blogs regularly at http://davidtlamb.com/. See also http://www.biblical.edu/index.php/david-lamb.


**Note: Image (Nathan Confronts King David, Julius Schnorr von Carolsfeld) from: http://www.boomerinthepew.com


+1 # Chris 2013-03-11 14:58
Hmmmm. You don't address the issue of the church crucifying sinners who would confess the large sins. I am not convinced we don't confess publicly because we don't trust God enough. We have trouble with how the "church" may handle us.
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0 # Mark Neale 2013-03-15 06:46
Very thoughtful post. To me the problems with the confession of sin in the modern church are two fold. Firstly most believers don't know how to handle it and tend to want to stone the confessor, and secondly the context of church has changed. I suspect the early believers confessed their sins and faults and faults in a smaller and more intimate situation with a much higher level of trust. I am not saying that there is no place for confession but it sure does need some wisdom applied. Blessings :roll:
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0 # David Lamb 2013-03-18 12:58
Chris, good point about public crucifixion, but that shouldn't really shock us. It happened to our Lord and we are his followers. It's still unfortunate.

Mark, yes, we need to find smaller settings where trust can be built up. Although when sins take place publicly, confession may need to be public as well.
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0 # John 2014-09-28 11:19
If you're going to write an opinion on something this important, at least use more of a scriptural foundation, particularly what the New Testament teaches on the subject.
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0 # carol 2015-11-09 15:40
Let me please say this, as the wife of a Fallen pastor.. fess up men, it may cost you your ministry, yes; it may cost you your marriage, but do you want it to cost you your soul....ultimately, the greatest loss of all. keeping the secret of sexual addiction, secret sins, affairs, porn, has been an entertaining way of life, steeped in sin, it has already cost you. It has cost you in lies and deceit and betrayal of all you hold dear. It has cost you the trust of everyone. Now confession, repentance, changing your heart, through the power of Christ's forgivness, is all that you should be seeking..then if God gives you anything more, your church back, or your wife not divorcing you, be humbly grateful to him.
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