Dog in trash and addictions

An old dog can learn a new trick. After having lived with us for over 1.5 years, our cocker spaniel has figured out that she can open the pull-out cabinet drawer that contains our trash. This only happens when we leave her penned in the kitchen. I suspect we left some wonderful smelling meat scraps in it one night and the desire enabled some higher level problem-solving skills (she’s not the brightest dog in the world) to kick in. Now that she has learned how to do this, we’ve taken to bungee cording the drawer when we leave the house. A few days ago, we forgot and came home to a mess of coffee grounds and torn up trash all over the floor.

Interestingly, our dog responds in quite a predictable manner. Normally, when we come home, she is at the door to greet us by dancing around and putting her front paws on our legs. But each time we have come home to a mess she has made, we see her cowering and ready to bolt. The last time we came home to this mess, she squeezed out the door before we could get into the house so she could run away. No, we don’t beat her. She knows she has done wrong.

I’ve wondered what goes on in her head during the time she is into the trash. Does she know it is wrong? When does she start feeling bad? The moment we arrive? Has she been cowering and feeling guilty as soon as she spreads trash around? One more funny behavior: when we send her to her crate (in the basement) for a time out, she goes right away. But then, after a bit, we see her outside of her crate but sitting patiently. Then, she’s at the bottom of the stairs looking to see if we will let her up. Then, her front paws are on the first step, waiting in anticipation that we’ll say all is forgiven.

And this relates to addictions how?

Most individuals who struggle with an addiction have the strong feeling of guilt even as they partake. Guilt rarely is enough to stop us from acting out. Even knowing that we may be caught does not stop us as much as logic would dictate. The desire to have what is right at our fingertips can easily overwhelm all sensibilities and logic–that will race back to us as soon as we finish partaking or as soon as someone finds out. Our initial response may include running away. Guilt and shame prevail for a time, and then we creep back into life hoping that the troubles we have caused will blow over and life will return to normal.

Of course, we are not dogs and so we must use the gifts God has given us (a brain capable of higher order planning, the Spirit) to learn from our mistakes and misdeeds. We can:

  • remove ourselves from proximity to the addictive agent
  • plan for accountability, especially during vulnerable times
  • examine the roots, shoots, and fruits of our addictions with a trusted friend/counselor
  • remind ourselves of the power to say no and the foolish, false promises of addiction

In addition, we who are filled with the Spirit of God know that our hope is not that our sins will be forgotten or blow over, but that they are paid for in full.

For more of what I have produced on the topic of addictions, use the search box at the top of my personal blog page. Or for a free podcast, Counseling Strategies for Individuals with Addictions, click here.


0 # Shawn 2014-01-29 17:31
Your dog's problems may not be addictive as such, they may be an attempt to punish you for calling her a cocker spaniel when she is, in fact, a tri-color rough collie. Collies are wonderful dogs but have a bit of diva in them, and may not take kindly to being labeled as another breed. ;-)

Other than that, nice post! I love the last line too, "In addition, we who are filled with the Spirit of God know that our hope is not that our sins will be forgotten or blow over, but that they are paid for in full." Well said!
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0 # Philip Monroe 2014-02-01 16:22
Shawn, funny comment. This is NOT my dog but an image chosen by someone else. I will say, she is a cocker spaniel and wouldn't brightness isn't her best feature :)
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